1. Choose a Layout That Respects Different Energies
Travelling as a couple within a bigger group can be tricky if the villa’s layout doesn’t give you breathing room. Look for properties where bedrooms are fairly equal in size and privacy so nobody feels short-changed. Ideally there should be at least one quieter zone—a small terrace, a balcony or a second lounge—where people can retreat for an hour with a book or a podcast.
When everyone has a private corner to recharge, the shared time in the main living area feels more relaxed and less intense.
2. Set Expectations About Space and Noise
Before you travel, talk honestly about how people like to spend their evenings. Some guests might be excited about late-night music and games, while others prefer early nights and dawn swims. A good villa can accommodate both, but it helps to agree on a few simple ground rules—maybe one “late” night, one quiet night and so on.
This kind of conversation might feel formal, but it avoids misunderstandings once you’re actually sharing the same kitchen, pool and sofa.
3. Use the Villa as a Base for Shared Moments
One of the joys of villa life is that you don’t have to go out all the time to feel like you’re on holiday. Plan a couple of “villa days” when you stay mostly on-site: pool time, an easy lunch, maybe a massage or yoga session that comes to you, and a long dinner cooked together or delivered—a day of modern otium where nobody has to rush anywhere.
These days often end up being the ones people remember most—the unhurried conversations, the silly in-jokes, the feeling of being in a temporary home with people you like. Whether you’re a couple joining a group or a pair organising the whole trip, using the villa as both a base and a highlight makes the holiday feel